ok first off the ignitor medicineman is showing you have does not appear to be from a 4AGE so theres your first problem. The plug below is not used for the ecu, it looks like a stereo plug, the plug you are missing from the ecu in that shot is for the fuel pump relay which has a yellow plug. in fact the whole loom appears to be wrong, the orange plug is definately ODD they should ALL be yellow plugs like the RHS plug on the ECU.
If i get motivated ill take a shot of a full loom and a coil and igniter sometime in the near future.